So you're so excited the hottie you have your eyes on finally gave you her phone number. You upset the courage to call her up and get her on a date. At this point your heart is racing and you're wondering what you can do to ensure the date is fun for you personally and her, as well as guarantee you'll get many more dates down the road.

If you're like most men you most likely believed that the proper thing to do on the first date would be to bring roses and chocolates when you go to pick her up. Take her out to a fancy restaurant where you will be on your very best behaviour and get her about her family and her religion -- fostering not to offend her by any means. You'll then agree with everything she says. You'll also act very respectable and neutered. In fact, you're afraid she'll think you may have any sort of sexual thoughts about her.

After the night time you pay for that expensive dinner and drive her home. When you get to her house, she's quick to get away from your car.

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As you two are about to part she tells you that she enjoyed the night time and that she'll call you to schedule the following date.

It never happens and you never listen to her again.

What exactly went wrong? Had you been not nice enough? Did she nothing like the place you took her? Maybe you're not attractive enough? Not even close to it...

The issue is you're acting like 99% of the guys available. You're kissing up to her!

Women do not want men who kiss as much as them and act "nice" towards them. They do not feel attraction for these types of men. They want to have fun. They want to be challenged. They want excitement!

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Here's what to do instead.

Don't take her to some fancy restaurant where you'll have awkward and boring conversations. Think about something that YOU like to do and then call her up and tell her you're doing such and the like and that she should join you because it will be FUN! As well as cheaper for the bank account.

While on the date, Don't act neutered or "proper." Instead, tease the heck from her. Take something that she does this is a little weird making fun of it. Find something interesting around you and make a funny comment about this. Lead the interaction. Women love men who lead.

Act relaxed, do not take it too seriously. Your aim is to have fun and if it goes well then great. If not, that's okay too.

As this is your first time getting to know each other, don't seriously too strong. On first dates, a ladies thought process usually goes something like this:

"I find him just a little interesting. I think he likes me but we'll see where it goes."

And a man's thought process usually goes something similar to this:

"Wow she's so hot, she is going to be considered a great girlfriend or a wife."

As you can imagine, the man looks at this girl as a potential wife and also the woman is laid back and going using the flow.

This will cause more pressure than normal for men so stop considering her this way! There's going to be something that you're not going to like about her. So chill out and be cool. You will have a far better chance at obtaining a second date and taking items to the next level.